After a few weeks of slacking here - figured I'd better do another Friday Five! It's always good to stop and think about the GOOD things that happen during the week - so here I go!
1) My first this week is to my Dad and his wonderful wife! They have been taking care of Kayleigh and Chase for three whole weeks!! I really expected a call after the first week saying "come and get them!". But my Dad is so patient and loving, and his wife has been so accepting of our family - that they've enjoyed every minute of it! When I talk to the kids every night they talk about all the fun things they do. What a memory they will always have of my Dad and Cassie.
2) This week I've also been very thankful for COMPUTERS of all things! My employer suffered a major computer problem that wiped out many of our facilities computers - mine - fortunately - was NOT one of them. However, my sister facility in Greensboro was. I've done a lot of helping out to keep them up to date, getting reports done, etc. for them from my building. Even though my building was not directly affected, I see how affected others are. It's so funny how reliant we've become on technology! They take hours of work on paper and get it done in just minutes.
3) I'm also very thankful, again, for Devin. With Kayleigh and Chase gone - he's been my only help around the house. I've tried really hard to not make him feel like all he's done for 3 weeks is clean and babysit Paige. He's getting involved in youth group, going to friend's houses, and just hanging out in his room by hisself. But - when he has had to help out - he's no griped at all about it and he's done a fabulous job. Paige misses Kayleigh and Chase - but Devin has certainly kept her entertained when Mike and I have been away. I appreciate you, Devin!!
4) We have been blessed with rain!!! Lots of it!!! North Carolina has fought through a drought for the last two years - this year started off fair and then got dry - real dry! But this week we have had rain every single day - pushing the total for July to over 2 inches already. Sounds like a lot - but we are still over 12 inches behind and can certainly use all the rain we can get.
5) Last, but certainly not least, for this week - I'm thankful for all of you who have said a prayer for our little friend Elaina. She is well on her way to proving the doctors wrong and showing great signs of improvement over the last 24 hours. Her sats are up, they've weaned her nitrate, she's being weaned from her vent, and her c-diff is cleared! Any one of these things could have taken this sweet girls life - but through the power of prayer - she is still fighting.
Hope everyone else had a great week with things to be thankful for also!!
Friday, July 11, 2008
Friday's Favorite Five
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Happy Birthday Mom!
Mom,
Today would be your 59th birthday. If you were here, we would be shopping all day with Cassi and ending up at dinner - just us three girls, well - maybe Kayleigh and Sammi too! What a fun birthday tradition we had. It was never about the shopping - more about the girl time.
I know you're with us each and every day. I can feel your spirit around us.
Until we meet again - Happy Birthday Mom!
I love you!
Michelle
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Update on Little Elaina
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Dear Kayleigh and Chase,
Daddy bought Mommy a new camera since you dropped hers in the creek and it doesn't always work right. I love it when she takes my picture! It makes me feel like a model and I pose for her every time.
Oh and every night before bed Mommy reads to me out of my new Children's Bible. It talks about Gabriel telling Mary she was going to have a baby, and Baby Jesus being born and sleeping in hay and straw, and Jesus grows up and gets lost when he was 12. Oh - and last night we read about his 12 people ... what are they called again? Oh yeah - disciples!
Can't wait to see you both on Saturday at the wedding party. I'm going to give you both hugs and kisses over and over again. Well .... maybe only about 8 times!!
Love you both
Paige
Monday, July 7, 2008
Play Date!!
Paige spent Sunday afternoon at her friend Cassie's house. The girls were looking forward to spending time together all week - driving Kristen (Cassie's Mom) and I crazy!! ("How many more days till Cassie's house"!!) The girls spent the majority of the time in the pool! They managed to get out just before the storms hit and played games the rest of the time.
Cassie and Paige went to pre-school together and were best friends from day 1. Us Moms have tried to keep play dates occasionally so they can remain friends. They'll go to different elementary schools - but we will surely keep the girls in touch.
You can check out more of Paige & Cassie on Four Hens and a Rooster (the Daukus family website). Kristen has some cute pictures and videos from their pre-school graduation on her site.
Thank you, Kristen and Steve, for having her over!!
Saturday, July 5, 2008
Who Needs Fireworks . . .
When you've got Daddy's attention all to yourself and 6 boxes of sparklers!
We attempted to go see fireworks last night. First the rain and storms came, then all at once people flooded downtown Lewisville when it broke. We decided it wasn't worth the mess and stayed here. We ended up being able to watch them from the cul-de-sac and then Paige got bored. So - we came back down to our house and got out the sparklers.
Our only child home went through SIX boxes of sparklers! She absolutely loved them! At first it was one at a time - but when she figured out they couldn't hurt her - it was one in each hand! Then - Daddy got silly lighting them with an end of the sparkler in his mouth! What a kid he is!!
We did have company over for the festivities. Our friendly neighborhood toad sat in the middle of the driveway the entire time watching Paige! Too funny!
Hope all our blogger friends & family had a great holiday!
Friday, July 4, 2008
A "Heart Buddy" Blogger Friend Needs Prayers Now!
I have a small group of blogger friends that all have a child - or children - with various cardiac conditions - some like Chase's - other's MUCH more serious. Hollie's little girl Elaina had open heart surgery last week at only a few months old. She posted this earlier today:
"Now, the not so positive parts of the day. The broviac is in Elaina's left femoral vein. Her left femoral artery is the one that was damaged by the art line earlier this week. Her circulation is very poor in this leg. We still can't find a pulse in her ankle or her foot and her foot is very dusky with sluggish capillary refill. It was warmer tonight than it was this afternoon, but it's still got a long way to go. THEN, I was given “THE talk” by the doctors and Palliative Care. If the procedure that was done in Cath Lab is not successful, if her oxygenation does not improve, there is not much that can be done to make things better. Elaina is currently on full support on the ventilator. They could possibly go a little higher on the nitric oxide, but it probably wouldn’t make a significant difference. There are still 2 collaterals that they were not able to coil. I’m not sure if this is because they were too small or if it’s because they are in a spot that the catheter couldn’t get to. Right now, they are not much of an issue, but if the blood flow “plumps” them up we could be right back where we are now. Also, because of all of this, they are concerned that there is just too much stress on her heart and they want me to think about what I want to have done if her heart stops. I also need to think about what I would do if this procedure doesn’t work and her saturations continue to drop. There were no surgical interventions offered to me. So, I may possibly have to make the hardest decision of my life. Needless to say, most of my day was spent in tears and in prayer. I would like to ask everyone if they would be willing to have a special fast for Elaina on Sunday. I know that God can work miracles. I know that He can heal the sick. Please join with me in her behalf on Sunday."
Please keep little Elaina in prayers tonight as well as Hollie. She needs all the strength and support she can get as a single Mom of little Elaina. You can also follow her story on your own at Walking the Fine Line.
Thank you!
Saturday, June 28, 2008
What's the Cost of a Smile?
The smile on Paige's face happy about her new dance-nastics class:
PRICELESS!
We have been telling Paige she could take a class after she turned 5. Well - she's now 5 and a half (don't forget the half!) and she's more than ready! I took her to Salem Gym last week and she picked the "Dance-Nastics" class. A perfect class for her because it's 20 minutes of gymnastics, 20 minutes of ballet, and 20 minutes of tap. She'll get to learn all three. She's so excited that she asks us several times a day "how many more days till my class again?"!
Children's Museum for a Party
Paige and I spent the morning at the Children's Museum in downtown Winston for our neighbor Carissa's birthday party. She had a lot of fun and wore me out!! The girls would go down the steps and clumb up the "beanstalk" (which is the netted thing Paige is climbing in the top picture) over and over again!
Paige also loved "shopping" in the Food Lion store. It was set up just like a real grocery store - only kid-sized! Right down to the toilet paper and tooth paste!! She even got to go through and check out her own food by scanning it when she was done!
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
So Far So Good ...
Chase and Kayleigh both went home with Grandpa Casto last Saturday - FOR THREE WHOLE WEEKS! Kayleigh went last summer - but this is a first for Chase. He was excited - but wow was hit hard on Mommy to watch him go!
So far - Chase has gone shopping with Grandma Cassie, swimming with Aunt Tonya and the boys, car shopping with Grandpa, and even helped Grandpa grill out. It's only been three days! Kayleigh is loving the time away from being a big sister to Paige and having a blast with Darianne (a neighbor of my Dad's that is her age). I'll post pics when Dad sends them to me! He claims he's too busy with 2 kids in the house!!
Around here - Paige is adjusting! She's been dealing with RINGWORM for the first time - which hasn't helped her missing her big sis! Yucko! We've been keeping her busy with Bible School at church the last few nights and we also signed her up for Dance-nastics at the Salem Gym. Today she went with our neighbor to see the Kids Flick at the theater.
Devin has been a great big brother - spending time with Paige outside, inside, watching movies, and playing games with her. Last night he offered to cook dinner for him and Lauren while they watched Paige - letting Mike and I go out to dinner at Carraba's - my favorite!!
This weekend will continue to be busy! Friday night Devin is going to a concert at a friend's church. Saturday we get up early to head to the Sci-Works Science Museum for our neighbor Carissa's birthday party. Saturday afternoon - weather permitting - we'll be heading to Tanglewood to enjoy their new Aquatic Center. Sunday after church we hope to head to Pilot Mountain to take the 1 mile kid friendly "hike" around the pinnacle, then back home by 4 for Devin to get to youth group, and then to his friend's birthday dinner at Big Shotz!
Wow! I'm exhausted just typing all that!
So - if you don't see a post for a few days - you now know why!!
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Congratulations Jason and Megan!
We spent the weekend in Columbus, Ohio to attend Mike's brother Jason's wedding. It was a beautiful day and the wedding was outdoors at a Bed & Breakfast in London, Ohio. Small, simple, and sweet ceremony that was just beautiful. We're very thankful we were able to make the trip up to attend!
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
That's My King!
I first saw this back around Easter time and thought it was quite moving! I ran across it again today and wanted to pass it on.
Monday, June 16, 2008
Worst Day of My Career Thus Far
Usually I post to the blog about the kids, family, things we're doing, etc. Today is different. Today I just need to get some of my feelings out there after the worst day I have ever experienced on the job.
I got to work this morning and as usual - saw one of my patients in the dining room with his son. I said hello - how was your weekend and he responded like he always does. "Good - I'm ready to work!". He finished and then came in to the therapy gym and his son headed off to work - just like every morning. But today wouldn't be like every morning.
As he was working I heard him comment to the other therapists that he was tired - but he was "ok". He finished with the Speech Therapist and worked a little with another Occupational Therapist - then was ready to walk. We talked about how well he was doing - and how excited he was to be able to be home by Friday for his 65th wedding anniversary - there was alot of smiles, talking, and laughing going on.
A PTA colleague of mine got him walking, still talking with him. He seemed a bit more fatigued than normal - but as always - he said "no - I'm fine - let's keep going". She sat him down to rest a minute and he became short of breath. Just so happened that our doctor was right there beside them and he told the doctor he felt no pain, just short of breath. Within seconds he was slumped over in his chair, unresponsive, and hardly breathing. Within minutes - he was gone.
Patients come to my floor - a subacute rehab floor - to get stronger, and go home - to their earthly home. As I sit here thinking about the whole thing over and over and over again - I keep thinking - what did we do wrong? Why did this happen? He was FINE! It makes no sense at all! We were all laughing and talking about going home one minute, and the next minute making the dreaded call to his son saying "we're sorry, it all happened so fast, he's gone". Almost seems like a dream - the whole thing.
I love my job - I do. But patients come to my floor - the subacute rehab floor - to get stronger and go home. It's my job as the manager to make sure this happens. They aren't supposed to come to my floor and die. It just doesn't work that way.
It's going to be so hard to go to work tomorrow and walk by that dining room and his table be empty. I dread even the thought of it.
Mr. D - you became one of our favorite patients so quickly! You will be missed by all of us at Brookridge! Rest peacefully sweet man.
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Saturday, June 14, 2008
Happy Father's Day Dad!
To My Dad -
Thank you for:
- Trips to the park
- Summers at the lake
- Fun at Cedar Point
- Movies on rainy days
- Fishing in the winter
- Boating on the river
- Dunking me in the pool
- Marshmallows at the campfire
- Hugs and kisses goodnight
- Loving me always
- And so much more!!
You mean the world to me and even more to your Grandchildren! These are a few pictures that are favorites of mine. I hope you enjoy them as much as I do!
Love You Always
Miss You Lots
Shelly
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Last Day of School
Today was the last day of school for all our kids. It's officially summertime!
Devin aced all his final exams placing him one of the top in his class! We're very proud of him - he's determined to keep the drive to get into a specific college. Kayleigh was nominated for the Golden Mustang award - each of the four teams nominate a student who is top of the class, involved in the community, helps in the school, etc. We'll find out later tonight if she wins the award - regardless it's an honor to be nominated! Chase scored in the highest bracket for his EOGs (end of grade testing) and Paige is ready so excited about Kindergarten!
Devin's already ahead of the game enjoying summer - he's gone to the pool a few times with friends. All the kids are excited about visiting the Tanglewood Aquatics Center at Tanglewood State Park. Have to admit - I'm looking forward to it too! Kayleigh and Chase will both be leaving next week to spend just over 2 weeks with Grandpa Casto and Grandma Cassie. Mike and I won't know how to act with only 2 kids in the house for a while!
Enjoy your summer too!
Sunday, June 8, 2008
No Common Sense In Schools Anymore?
Warning - this is Mike and I venting over something that happened Friday . . .
About lunchtime - I received a cell phone call from Chase's school. He had a piece of card-board on his lap and was poking into it with a very sharp pencil (leave it to Chase!!). That pencil poked clear through the cardboard into his left leg in the meaty portion just above his knee. The school nurse said - I had to come get him - so I dropped everything and on my way I went.
Now - Mike and I ASSUMED that he was bleeding, or had a piece of the pencil lead in his leg since they wanted me there. Afterall - I was told that I HAD to come right away. Well - we all know what happens when you ASSUME! I got there to find Chase sitting on the chair laughing and giggling as always with a cold rag on his leg. He moved it and I could hardly see the little redmark on his leg!! Sure - he had a puncture wound - but there was no lead in it, and it wasn't even really bleeding!
The nurse came out of her office and said to me "Oh I'm glad you're here. He'll need that cleaned out pretty good." I looked at her funny and said - "you couldn't do that". That's when she proceeded to tell me that they're not allowed to do first aid like that anymore!! WHAT!?! What on earth is the point of a school nurse if they can't pour peroxide on a puncture wound and send the kid back to class!
I took Chase home (we live 3 miles from the school), washed it out, poured peroxide over it, slapped a bandaid with Neosporin on it and took his little behind right back to school - where he wanted to be because it was game day. As I was signing him back in - I got questioned as to WHY he was back!! I simply looked at the receptionist and said with a bit of attitude I'm sure: "He's fine. Send him to class. I'm going back to work now" and I left.
Seriously though - have people in the US gotten so lawsuit happy that they've taken away a school nurse's ability to use common sense for crying out loud! Geesh!!
Saturday, June 7, 2008
Kate's Kart is a Success!
I posted a while back about Kate's Kart. Kate was a beautiful little girl from back home in Fort Wayne. Full of life and smiles, but suffered a serious congenital heart condition that eventually took her life at only 18 months of age.
Kate's Kart is an organization set up by Kate's parents in memory and honor of her. Over the last month - they have collected over $30,000 worth of donations, including 5,000 books to give to children at Lutheran Children's Hospital. The community has gone way above with Krista and Andy's expectations ever were!
This News Sentinal Article was was in June 2nds paper. As a result of the success of Kate's Kart at Lutheran Children's Hospital - they now have requests to start Kate's Kart in 4 other area hospitals back home.
There's a video link to the left with the full story of Kate's Kart and how you can help.
Little Kate sure left quite a legacy for her family and friends!
Daddy's New Toy
Or ... is it Devin's!?!
So - am I supposed to pay him to do something he begs to do anyhow??? We'll have to ponder that one a while!
Friday, June 6, 2008
Cystic Fibrosis Awareness
This video was posted on a blog of a "CF'er" that I read frequently. Fortunately - she was able to receive a double-lung transplant to extend her young life. Many - are not so fortunate. It is a long video - but well worth watching it all. It's a look inside her life with CF before, during, and after her transplant. There's a website listed at the end of the video for more information on the Gear Up For CF Campaign. Also, if you'd like to read more about Eva visit 65 Red Roses.
Friday's Favorite Five
1 - Our marriage! As many of you read about earlier in the week - 20 years ago on Tuesday (June 3) we met. We celebrated by going out to dinner and just having "alone time" as Paige says! 20 years is something we've learned we have to work at - daily - by respecting eachother, loving eachother, laughing with eachother, and yes - even being mad at eachother once in a while!
2 - Summer is here! Sure - it's steaming hot - but it's gorgeous outside! Our rose garden is blooming, we have more strawberries than we know what to do with, and we even have 4 blueberry bushes that will be ready to pick soon. Loving every minute of it!
3 - The Farmers Market!!! I've been there many times with my mother-in-law Judy and my friend Dawnya when they come to visit. But - Mike had never been there. So - Sunday afternoon we drove to Greensboro! Came home with lots of herb plants, melon, fresh corn, and more. I think I've got him hooked!
4 - Music Music Music - Although I have to admit sitting through band concerts to watch my daughter play her flute is absolutely mind numbing and drives me insane . . . I have such a sense of pride in watching her! She played in her last concert of the year Thursday night - and it was actually a good concert this time with a lot of fun music.
5 - The nice man from the Chrysler dealership that saved the day today! As I was pulling out of Brookridge (where I work) the van felt "clunky". Sure enough - the back passenger tire had blown and the rim looked a bit funny. Our Chrysler Dealership (we drive a 2006 Town & Country) was right around the corner. He came to my rescue, filled the tire and followed me there - best part - DIDN'T CHARGE US EXTRA FOR IT! What a good samaritan!
That's it - hope you had a great week!
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Flash Floods at Indiana University
Mike and I both went to IU and lived on campus for 5 years. We loved it! If we ever moved back to Indiana - we'd go back to Bloomington! Yesterday - a massive storm went through in the middle of the afternoon dumping several inches of rain in just 45 minutes. The results - flash floods on campus!! Here's a few pics a friend sent to us:
This third picture is along 3rd street - which is along the ege of campus. There are many big classroom halls along this street - usually there are many many students walking along it. Fortunately - it's summer session and not too busy.
This last picture is on Dunn Street. Dunn and Kirkwood T off right at the entrance of the campus - Dunn goes along side the edge of campus and is always quite busy!! This is where she said the flash flood hit the hardest - which is quite obvious by the pictures and the cars just buried in the water! The bus is unbelievable!!
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
20 Years Ago Today . . .
Sunday, June 1, 2008
Couple of Prayer Requests
Two of my friends and their families need extra prayers tonight and in the upcoming days.
First - Little Patrick is a fellow preemie like our Paige. He was born last June 4th at only 28 weeks gestation and is a survivor in every sense of the word! He's recently been struggling with the croup and respiratory distress common this time of the year with preemies. He's really giving his Mom and Dad some scares though - with strider, wheezing, lower respiratory distress, and frequent trips to the hospital. Having been there ourselves, we know how tough it is and how scared we were.
Also - another internet blogging friend has lost their little boy this weekend. Baby Jacob was born with Trisomy 18 and passed away yesterday afternoon at only 4 months old. What a fighter he was! Most Trisomy babies live only hours. His family was very blessed to have 4 months with him and they are grieving his loss.
Please take a few minutes tonight and pray for both of these families.
Look Out Highway Here He Comes!
This is Devin frantically texting all his friends that he starts the driving part of drivers ed TOMORROW! The driver's ed teacher just called me to see if Devin can go in the car THIS WEEK! He'll be driving from 6:30pm to 9:30pm Monday through Thursday - then he can officially get his permit. We've never seen him so excited!!
So - look out highway . . . here he comes!
What Do You Do On A Hot Day?
You buy the kids a new triple runner slip 'n slide supreme of course! It was a hot and sticky 94 degrees by 12:00 noon today! Kayleigh and Devin were too big - but Chase and Paige had a blast!!!
We're going to see about putting a pool in over the next few weeks. We got spoiled last year having a big in-ground pool to stay cool in!!